With the onset of considerable gray hair and age lines, it’s not unusual for young people at conferences or during builder visits to seek me out for advice. They expect a sage possessed of wisdom they don’t yet have, and at times they cling to my every word—the price of being introduced as a “noted authority.” That’s a bit scary because most days I don’t feel so much older than them. There are plenty of reminders, though, such as the blank looks I get when I make a reference to Vietnam, Sputnik, or the green-and-gold AMC Gremlin my Dad brought home in ‘67. Just this morning I heard a John Dean interview about Watergate, the single biggest political scandal in U.S. history—the one that took down a sitting president. Hardly anyone under 40 knows about it or cares. Yes, I have a lot of home building experience, and my many years in manufacturing before then contributed greatly to my understanding, but how much have I learned? Enough to earn the official sage merit badge for my Consultant Scout’s uniform? Larry Wilson, one of the great trainers of the ‘70s and ‘80s, always counseled that knowledge comes not from our experience, but what we learn from that experience. Thus, Larry emphasized, the first challenge is to learn—or how to learn—from our experience.
Semantics? Hardly. Larry was right. Take two directors or VPs of construction, purchasing, sales, or any other home building discipline. They have each logged 20 years of experience. One has learned so much that you feel humbled in his or her presence. The other, well, you wonder how they ever made it this far. They have the same years of experience, but one learns an incredible amount, far more than most, while the other totally missed it and still stumbles through the workday making one bad decision after another. I have been blessed to know a few of the former—guys like Doug Campbell, Mike Rhoads, and Gary Grant, among many others—who gave me the opportunity to learn from their experience and, thus, save many of my colleagues from the serious damage I otherwise might have caused.
The late great Dr. W. Edwards Deming, a quality guru the likes of whom the world has never seen before or since, has been deceased more than 20 years now; but hardly a day goes by when something he said does not come to mind. The venerable Doc had a lot to say about learning, but my favorite went like this: “Two students. One memorizes that Madison is the capital of Wisconsin. The other discovers why the capital of Wisconsin is Madison.” Deming would just let it sink in for a full minute or more, saying nothing, quietly demanding that his audience of several hundred think about it, contemplate it, learn from it. Then he would say in a plaintive voice, “That is all the difference ... all the difference in the world.”
So have I truly learned from my experience? I began writing down my lessons learned for the younger members of the building industry, the things I often proclaim in this column, in presentations, and in my work with builders in the field:
1. Home builders don’t build a home, they manage a process. They plan, prepare, finance, coordinate, inspect, et al, but not build. Never forget that you are wholly dependent on those who do what you cannot or will not do. For every paid member of a builder team, there are 35 or 40 others going about the daily work of designing, building, and selling your houses. Handle them with care and treat them always with dignity and respect.
2. Figure out a combination of what you are good at, what will sell, and what you enjoy building. Do that better than anyone else and you’ll prosper. Quit chasing deals. Learn to make money on the house itself and treat land profit as a nice bonus, when it comes.